I believe love is the most used word in the world with no clear definition. Love is something that lust is not....I think. Could you actually love lust? It's definition is sometimes confused with love and most of the time not noticed until afterwards. Some say you can't be in love unless you're loyal but loyalty is another misunderstood word as well. Loyal to who? Loyal to yourself or loyal to your partner? If u want to cheat on the person you love and you do it, you're loyal to yourself correct? Not cheating is cheating yourself correct? So is it less love or lust? Ambiguity at its finest... what's love? What's lust? Can you be loyal dealing with these "emotions" ?
Damn that's some real shit but if ya partner knows ya loyalty to yaself is most important that lust comes wit ya loyalty and ya partner still choose to know that nobodys perfect and choose to be loyal to u that's love n eventually ya loyalty to yaself will change n ya lust will fade n love becomes unconditional
ReplyDeleteYou can look at love, lust, loyalty as characteristics, choices, feelings, and actions. Like sex, each person develops what these mean to them, or how they approach, receive and give them. They all play a big part in self love. Who do you love so much as you love yourself that your willing to figure out if its more than just lust, who do you lust for that your loyal to that you may feel you are in love. What is the highest of euphoria or trust that you believe is love. WHY do you feel these things?. I think as anything else grows, dies, become stronger or weaker, you try to distinguish where you can place those without causing confusion or hurt, to receive and make the best decision possible. I dont know what love IS but i can tell you i have the capability. Every one has a certain amount. I am very loyal irregardless lust or love or just friendship and respect. Depending the person you feel these things towards can help discover meaning to these words as well. Whether a good relationship or bad, you know its either right or wrong and something didnt belong, or that you could of done better. Lust i believe has more definition than the others because you can simply desire someone physically and have no interest in their day to day life or well being, which plays more along the lines of physical attraction. Your brain and heart steps in eventually with someone of interest and you may lust FOR them but still there is that one thing, or that one reason you just dont see yourself being with this person. Care & respect comes with loyalty. Going back to the one you lust for numerous times isnt loyalty, when you add not sleeping with anyone else because of this person, yes that is loyalty but not love, it is a choice you made that felt appropriate. True love never is defined, its as far and how much your willing to go and to do, which makes it unconditional. No it is not cheating if you feel this way for someone else as well... a heart is a heart, it performs many tasks inside your body, how could it possibly be limited to loving one person...that falls more under how you were raised as far as dating one person, marrying one person. From a female, have an understanding of who your dealing with before you approach being with other women as well...make sure you let her understand where your hearts coming from towards another lady in your life... if she doesnt accept it then thats when your AMOUNT of love and loyalty decides what you may THINK is best. LOVE should never be limited...just respect yourself and others in the midst...we can all do with love, so work towards understanding what you want with all three, LOVE, LUST, LOYALTY and there is never a wrong answer :)
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